Over
time we get to know people better and discover who they really are. Giving it time says
a lot of things and spares us mistakes we might have made if we rushed into a
relationship. Recently I met a lady and it was all on me that she was the one
and all that. You get to know the true colour of people when you relate over a
period of time. Some say Love is blind but for me it’s not so at all. Love can
be blind only when you rush into the relationship and later discover the incompatibility
of the both of you. Meeting people for the first time can be all rosy until you
later discover the character of the person, I used to say I will get married to
a tall beautiful light skinned lady, but I have come to discover it is not about
the height, skin colour or beauty; character sustains you in the relationship. A
beautiful lady with no character will only lead you to regrets, no matter how
beautiful she might look. I once heard a preacher say; if you have been praying
to God for a blessing/miracle and it’s not forthcoming, check yourself you have
PRIDE. I have also seen a write up by a scholar saying; a woman that begins to
feel like the man of the house will one day find herself in a house without a
man. Pride makes one not to be submissive to the other partner and men are
naturally the figure heads and won’t give in to any woman’s ego. So many ladies
say they can’t be obedient to men they are yet to marry and end up not getting
married, because the Love of some men like me has eyes to see, brain to reason,
ears to hear, legs to run if need be. A lot of things would attract you to a
lady, and it also takes a lot of things to keep you attracted or running from
that lady. Character and I repeat consistent good character drives a relationship.
In as much as you want to tolerate people, be sure it’s to the level you can
endure even inside the relationship, if not give it time and be sure to make a
wise decision. I have learnt my lessons, and I am sharing with you just so you
won’t make same mistakes. Not all that glitters is gold says an adage; Love has
eyes, ears, nose, brain, and legs use them if need be.
